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In Grief, Mom Shares Heartbreak of Heroin

By LIBBY CUDMORE

ONEONTA

The downward spiral started with a trip to the dentist. “My son Jeremy had his wisdom teeth removed and the dentist prescribed him painkillers,” said his mother, Deb France of Oneonta. “Our world was turned upside down.”

He first went to jail for theft at 18, and the family’s insurance wouldn’t cover his treatment. He tried to commit suicide, and he was committed to the psychiatric ward. “They said, ‘He’s a heroin addict, cut him loose’,” she said. “We sacrificed his college fund to try to get him into treatment.”

But even after another stay in rehab, Jeremy relapsed and wound up back in jail. “One month after he got out of jail and one week after his 23rd birthday, my son successfully committed suicide,” she said.

The audience gasped.

People struck by the heroin scourge joined doctors, politicians, police, and treatment center managers at SUNY Oneonta’s Hunt Union Ballroom Monday, April 28, for the state Task Force on Heroin & Opioid Addiction. “There are real people behind the numbers and statistics,” said state Sen. Jim Seward, R-Milford, a task force member. “We need to know what we can do to be helpful to you.”

The state Legislature formed the task force to combat the epidemic of heroin problems in Upstate New York, evident in a spike in thefts, overdoses, and arrests. “Our resources are tapped out, our jails are full of addicts,” said Otsego County Sheriff Richard J. Devlin Jr. “60 percent of our current jail population has an addiction, and we have no resources to deal with withdrawal or the underlying causes of that addiction.” Saying this though, there is help out there for people suffering from addiction. For example, visiting a Bend, Oregon rehab treatment center, (or a local clinic) for example, being able to speak to nurses and mental health counselors may be the first step to recovery and leading a better life.

Addiction is one of the hardest things that some people have to go through, and once they’ve combated the addiction the withdrawal phase is not too far behind, regardless of whether or not you’re in jail. Thankfully, you can visit a drug and alcohol addiction rehab center that could help you to combat your addiction. There are some people who try to recover from addiction without help, however, withdrawals could give them sick and need of help. It can be hard to give a person the right treatment when they are withdrawing from opiates such as heroin as they could start to become addicted to that instead. A product called kratom is said to help with symptoms of withdrawal but it is important that you thoroughly research this product first before deciding to go ahead with using it. Ask your doctor if you’re not sure; you don’t want to damage your health further by taking a product if you are unsure on whether or not it will be effective.

The stories related here were all the same – no one started with a needle in their arm, but rather, with medicines prescribed by a doctor. “Kids see it as medication,” said Julie Dostal, LEAF executive director. “We have to teach them that just because it has an Rx doesn’t mean it’s safe.”

I-Stop laws, which prevent over-prescribing of opioids, are helping reduce the practice of doctor-shopping, but without the prescription, many addicts are turning to heroin. “In Delaware County, I don’t know of a single case that didn’t start with prescriptions,” said Christopher Kemp, that county’s Chemical Dependency Program manager.

Education is a key component in combating the problem, and cuts to schools and programs have damaged the ability of teachers to reach kids. “We used to have substance-abuse counselors and D.A.R.E programs in place,” said former Cooperstown mayor Joe Booan, ONC BOCES director of student programs. “We need to have that education surrounding prevention, but that cannot happen without financial resources.”

In addition to money for education, funds for existing treatment facilities and the need to open more rehab centers were discussed. “The most heartbreaking thing is when people call LEAF asking for help finding someplace to get treatment,” said Dostal. “And we have to tell them that before they can get into inpatient treatment, they have to fail at outpatient. Can you think of another disease we treat like that?”

“If you smoke, you can call up a hotline and New York State will give you free treatment,” said Graham. “We offer to help nicotine addicts without repercussions – and I dream of a day we can treat opiate addiction the same way.”

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